I continued my conversation with Jay T. McNamara Ph.D. from earlier in the week. While talking to the professional psychologist, bass enthusiast and author of 'The Psychology of Exceptional Bass Fishing" I wanted to get a sense for how he mentally coaches himself and fellow anglers to focus in the face of adversity.“First you need to determine what your overarching goal is.” Referring back to the tournament he won at Minnetonka Jay said, “if your goal is to fish that sunken island in three footers all day, you can find a way to do that, [but] your goal should be to win the tournament… People get too focused on what went wrong.” He went on to cite dozens of examples… like the fellow fishermen focusing on the bad weather that day, or people getting stuck in traffic (and not taking a different route), or salespeople getting stopped by a crabby receptionists. “You can get in line [in traffic] with everyone and be pissed off, or you can find another route… you can bitch about that crabby receptionist, or you can think of another way [to talk to the decision maker].”
Step two, after determining your overarching goal, is to decide what to do next. “Do I work around it… do something different… start over or make it worse? I think it was Sam Snead who expected to hit seven or eight bad shots each round. It’s not the first bad shot, it’s what you do next.” The guys who fester in that bad shot will oftentimes make another bad shot. But the guys who aren't phased by one bad shot are often able to gather themselves and make a great saving shot. Back to our example of the salesman talking to the crabby receptionist- it’s not the crabby receptionist that’s the problem, it’s what we do next. If we choose to continually call her we’ll probably only make matters worse. If I choose to complain to my colleagues for twenty minutes about that witch I'm not making things any better and I could be missing an opportunity on the next call- maybe theres a friendly receptionist just waiting to take my call! Remember, my overarching goal isn’t to win-over the receptionist, it’s to sell her boss or the next guy. I need to figure out a way to do that without her.
It's the salesman who knows his overarching goal (to make the sale) and who effectively decides what to do next (sell, and not complain about the receptionist, the paperwork, the territory, etc.) that wins the business!

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